A service dog is not for everyone. Some days my anxiety is heightened because I have the dog with me. People do stupid shit, and it makes me worry that my fully trained dog might mess up…completely unfounded fear, but a nagging one regardless. People like to stare, talk to the dog instead of me, rush up and touch, and tell me all about their dead dog who is kinda like mine in the fact that they’re both dogs. Ugh.
Treat the service dog like a boob.I’m serious. That’s it. That’s all you have to remember.
There are certain things that no person should or would (hopefully) ever do in regards to boobs. The following is a list of things that if you ever said or did any of them, you would earn yourself a well deserved slap.“Look at that girl’s boobs! *points* Hey, everybody! That girl has boobs!”“Am I allowed to sit next to you? I don’t want your boobs to bite me or anything. Maybe I should just sit on the other side of the room…”
“Can I touch your boobies!?”“Why do you have to have those boobs with you? I’m just not so sure they’re necessary.”“BOOBIES!! *grabs without permission*”“Are your boobs aggressive? Do they bite?”“I just don’t know how I feel about letting someone with boobs in here. It’s just unsanitary, you know? You understand, right?”
“Hi, little boobies! I’ve got a treat for you! You want a treat, little boobies?”“Are you sure your boobs are real? You aren’t blind or in a wheelchair. How do I know you don’t have fake boobs? Do you have paperwork proving that they’re real boobs?”“Are your boobs going to behave themselves? I don’t want any disruptions.”“Look, honey! That girl has boobies! Go pet her boobies! What? What do you mean my kid can’t pet your boobs? That’s so rude of you!”“Are your boobs going to be able to handle this situation? They aren’t going to get scared and freak out, are they?”“How dare you have boobs when there’s nothing wrong with you! There is a disabled veteran out there that served our country that actually deserves to have those boobs, and needs those boobs, and you took those boobs away from them! You should be ashamed of yourself!”“I know it’s none of my business, but why do you have boobs?”“Why is that girl allowed to have boobs in here! I want boobs too!”As humorous as all of this is, it is actually a genuine problem for people like me who have a legitimate service dog for an invisible illness. Replace the words “boobs” and “boobies” with “dog,” “service dog,” and “puppy,” and you will have a list of actual comments people have made to me- most of them by complete strangers who have never seen me before in their lives, and who began their conversation with me this way. –Service Dogs and Boobs– A complete guide